Stay in the Room – A Parent's Pause & Reflect Companion to Beyond the Behaviour
Stay in the Room – A Parent's Pause & Reflect Companion to Beyond the Behaviour
You don't have to rush through this journey.
Stay in the Room is a beautifully designed companion workbook created to accompany the book, Beyond the Behaviour. It brings together every Pause & Reflect section from the book and provides space for parents, carers and educators to slow down, process what they're reading and explore their own experiences more deeply.
Written for those raising, loving or supporting children who don't fit the mould, this workbook offers a gentle invitation to pause, breathe and reflect. It is not about fixing, performing or finding perfect answers. It is about making space for your story alongside your child's.
Across ten chapters, readers are guided through thoughtful reflection prompts exploring themes including:
• School phone calls and behaviour reports
• Looking beyond behaviour
• Advocacy and school meetings
• Friendship and belonging
• Parenting guilt and self-compassion
• Letting go of perfection
• Parenting differently
• Navigating systems and support services
• Finding your voice
• Writing your own letter of hope
Included in this resource:
• 32-page printable companion workbook
• Reflection pages for every chapter of Beyond the Behaviour
• Guided journaling prompts
• Space for personal notes and reflections
• Weekly action prompts
• A final letter-writing activity
• Beautifully designed print-friendly format
This workbook is ideal for:
• Parents and carers
• Foster, kinship and adoptive families
• Grandparents and support people
• Educators reading alongside families
• Professional learning communities
• Book clubs and discussion groups
• Counsellors and parent support programs
Unlike many parenting resources that focus on strategies alone, Stay in the Room creates space for reflection, self-awareness and healing. It acknowledges the emotional weight of parenting children with additional needs, trauma histories, neurodivergence or complex life experiences, while gently reminding parents that they are not alone.
Throughout the workbook, readers are encouraged to explore questions such as:
• What story am I telling myself about my child?
• What has advocacy cost me?
• What expectations do I need to let go of?
• What does success really look like in our home?
• How can I offer myself the same compassion I offer my child?
File Format: PDF (32 pages)
Companion resource for Beyond the Behaviour by Jade Wong.
A gentle companion for the parents who stay, advocate, grieve, hope and keep showing up.
Sometimes the most important work happens in the pause.
Stay close. Stay curious. Stay in the room. ❤️

